Postpartum
Depression - Recognizing the Signs
By Cassandra Germsheid
In some cases, bringing home your new baby
doesn't inspire the happy thoughts and feelings
you were expecting. If this is the case, you
may be suffering from postpartum depression.
If you have suffered depression anytime before
giving birth, your chances of suffering postpartum
depression are even greater.
Postpartum depression can affect up to 16%
of new moms, but this number may actually be
higher due to the large number of cases that
are undiagnosed.
Postpartum depression is not to be confused
with normal 'baby blues'. Baby blues typically
last from a few days to a week after childbirth.
This is very common and does not need treatment.
The best way to cope with it is to ask for help
and support from friends and family. It also
helps to talk to other new moms who are experiencing
similar feelings.
Postpartum depression, on the other hand, can
occur anytime in the first year of your baby's
life. If you have any of these symptoms, you
may be suffering from postpartum depression.
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Feeling sad, irritable, angry, frustrated
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Feeling like you are a terrible mother
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Feeling of guilt and unworthiness
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Difficulty sleeping, always feeling exhausted
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Thinking that there is no light at the end
of the tunnel
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Extreme changes in weight, or loss of appetite
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Difficulty concentrating and memory problems
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Constantly worrying
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Crying for no apparent reason
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Anxiety
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Not wanting to talk to or be with friends
and family
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Negative feeling towards your baby
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Blaming your baby for your feelings
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Wanting to hurt yourself or your baby
Postpartum depression can be life changing.
But you need to realize that it is not your
fault. And you are not alone - many women suffer
from postpartum depression, and there is help
available.
Remember that things will get better. Until
they do, there are many different support systems
- friends, family, doctors and nurses, peer
groups, counselors, support groups, and hotlines.
There also many books, websites, and other resources
with information on dealing with postpartum
depression.
Postpartum depression can be mild, moderate,
or severe. The most important thing you can
do is talk to your doctor to determine what
specific treatment, or combination of treatments,
may work best for you.
Cassandra Germsheid is the
owner of Baby Tips Online: http://www.babytipsonline.com.
She is a stay at home mother but sometimes works
part time for her local newspaper.