Host 
                                  the Perfect Tea Party 
                                By 
                                  Catherine Owsianiecki 
                                  In Courage in a Dangerous World, Eleanor 
                                    Roosevelt wrote, "A woman is like a tea 
                                    bag; only in hot water do you realize how 
                                    strong she is." And today, women who 
                                    have more than proven their strength are taking 
                                    a breather from modern life to bask in the 
                                    hospitality and rare civility of the tea party. 
                                   
                                Spurred on by tea's considerable health benefits 
                                  (research claims that it protects from certain 
                                  cancers, heart disease, and stroke), women are 
                                  making tea parties the theme of many formal 
                                  and informal gatherings-from bridal and baby 
                                  showers to birthday parties and girls' day out. 
                                 
                                In the process, many have also found that calm 
                                  conversation over fine bone china, etched with 
                                  delicate pink roses, is an effective key to 
                                  renewal, revival, and relief. With a little 
                                  planning, you too can lift the hearts and spirits 
                                  of the overbooked, overextended, and just plain 
                                  overburdened ladies in your life. 
                                What Do I Need to Hold a Tea?
                               
                              
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 First and foremost, you need company. Keep 
                                    in mind that the tea ritual was designed to 
                                    be a cozy and intimate gathering. Limit your 
                                    guest list to eight of your favorite people. 
                                   
                                  
                                 
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 Send invitations two weeks ahead of time. 
                                    Written invitations are always elegant, but 
                                    telephone or email summons will do just as 
                                    well. Visit Evite.com for festive, customized 
                                    invitations that provide maps and reminders 
                                    for your guests.  
                                  
                                 
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 Gather the following accoutrements: a teapot, 
                                    teacups and saucers (they do not need to match), 
                                    a tea strainer and small dish to deposit the 
                                    tea leaves, a pitcher of milk, lemon slices, 
                                    jam, sugar and artificial sweetener, small 
                                    plates, utensils, and napkins.  
                                  
                                 
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                                     On the day of the tea, bring refreshments 
                                      in on trays or a cart and set the table 
                                      so that guests may serve themselves. The 
                                      hostess should always pour the tea and pass 
                                      it to each guest. 
                                   
                                 
                               
                               
                                 What Kind of Tea Shall It Be?
                              
                              
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 Cream tea, or light tea, is a simple repast 
                                    consisting of scones, jam, and Devonshire 
                                    cream. It is ideal for girl talk on a rainy 
                                    afternoon with your closest friends. And it's 
                                    informal enough to serve right in the kitchen! 
                                   
                                  
                                 
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 Afternoon tea, or low tea, is traditionally 
                                    served between 3:00 p.m. and 5:00 p.m. It 
                                    was invented by Anna Maria, the seventh duchess 
                                    of Bedford (1783-1857) when she experienced 
                                    "a sinking feeling" in the middle 
                                    of the afternoon. The menu consists of light 
                                    fare-finger sandwiches, scones, assorted pastries, 
                                    and a layer cake or trifle. Hold this elegant 
                                    tea in a comfortable setting such as a living 
                                    room or den. In warm weather, move the party 
                                    to a lawn, deck, or even poolside.  
                                  
                                 
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 High tea is a hearty sit-down meal traditionally 
                                    served after 6:00 p.m. Originated by the English 
                                    working classes during the Industrial Revolution, 
                                    high tea consists of robust meat dishes, bread 
                                    and cheese, and a dessert of cake or pie. 
                                   
                                 
                               
                               
                                 Which Cup of Tea Shall It Be?
                                While there are thousands of varieties of tea, 
                                  they all come from one Asian plant, the Camellia 
                                  sinensis and its hybrids. It is the processing 
                                  that determines whether the tea you drink is 
                                  black, white, green, or oolong. 
                               
                              
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                                     Black tea is fully fermented, or oxidized. 
                                      Its green leaves are plucked and left to 
                                      wither. They are then twisted so the natural 
                                      enzymes are released and oxidized. Next, 
                                      they are dried until the leaves turn black 
                                      and develop their full-bodied flavor, which 
                                      can range from flowery and fruity to nutty 
                                      and spicy. 
                                   
                                 
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                                     White tea is generally processed by steaming 
                                      and drying the youngest, unfermented leaves 
                                      of the plant. The most popular of these 
                                      rare teas are White Peony, Snowbud, and 
                                      Silver Needle. 
                                   
                                 
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                                     Green tea is unfermented. The green leaves 
                                      are first spread out to wither and are then 
                                      steamed, rolled, and dried. While the Chinese 
                                      variety is known for its mellow flavor, 
                                      the Japanese version is often described 
                                      as "grassy." These teas are high 
                                      in nutrients and minerals and are thought 
                                      to provide great health benefits. 
                                   
                                 
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                                     Oolong tea is semifermented. The oxidation 
                                      period is halted after 2 hours and the resulting 
                                      flavor is a compromise between black and 
                                      green teas. Oolong teas are produced almost 
                                      exclusively in China and Taiwan. 
                                   
                                 
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 Blended teas are combinations of different 
                                    teas, and flowers, fruit, herbs, or spices 
                                    are often part of the mix.  
                                  
                                 
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 Herbal teas are not really tea at all since 
                                    they derive from plants other than the Camellia 
                                    sinensis. These caffeine-free drinks are also 
                                    referred to as infusions or tisanes and are, 
                                    like green teas, lauded for their medicinal 
                                    properties.  
                                 
                               
                              
                                 What to Serve, What to Serve?
                                 Visit your local library, bookstore, or the 
                                  Internet, and you will find a plethora of tea 
                                  sandwich, scone, and pastry recipes. But start 
                                  with these three, and you will be well on your 
                                  way to a memorable tea: 
                                Cucumber Mint Tea Sandwiches 
                                  ½ stick butter 
                                  2 tbsp fresh mint leaves 
                                  8 slices of bread, crusts removed 
                                  ½ large cucumber, thinly sliced 
                                  Sugar 
                                In small bowl, mix butter and mint until well 
                                  blended. Spread mixture onto slices of bread. 
                                  Lay cucumber on 4 slices of bread. Sprinkle 
                                  a dash of sugar on cucumber. Top with remaining 
                                  slices of bread. Cut diagonally and serve. 
                                  8 servings. 
                                Cranberry Scones  
                                  2 cups all-purpose flour 
                                  ¼ cup sugar 
                                  1 tablespoon baking powder 
                                  ¼ teaspoon salt 
                                  1/3 cup butter, diced 
                                  1 cup whipping cream 
                                  ¼ teaspoon ground nutmeg 
                                  1 egg white 
                                  1 teaspoon orange zest 
                                  1 cup fresh cranberries, chopped 
                                Preheat oven to 375 degrees. In large bowl, 
                                  combine flour, sugar, baking powder, and salt. 
                                  Gradually add butter until mixture is course 
                                  and crumbly. Add whipping cream and stir until 
                                  mixture is moist. Mix in cranberries, nutmeg, 
                                  and orange zest.  
                                Place on a lightly floured surface and knead 
                                  6 or 7 times. Roll until ½ inch thick. 
                                  Cut with a biscuit cutter and place each scone 
                                  2 inches apart on a lightly greased baking sheet. 
                                  Brush tops of scones with egg white and bake 
                                  for 20 minutes or until golden brown. 
                                  12 servings. 
                                Devonshire Cream 
                                  3 ounces cream cheese 
                                  1 tablespoon powder sugar 
                                  1 teaspoon vanilla 
                                  ½ teaspoon salt 
                                  1 cup whipping cream 
                                Beat cream cheese, sugar, salt, and vanilla 
                                  until well blended. Add whipping cream and beat 
                                  until mixture is stiff. Cover and chill at least 
                                  2 hours. Spread on scones. 
                                  Today's tea ceremony is graciousness and geniality 
                                  minus the stuffy Victorian etiquette. So the 
                                  next time you and your twenty-first-century 
                                  friends experience "a sinking feeling," 
                                  dust off that teapot and drown your sorrows 
                                  in the warmth of the cup that cheers. 
                                How to Brew the Perfect Cup of Tea
                                 Fill your kettle with freshly drawn cold water. 
                                   
                                  Preheat your teapot with nearly boiling water 
                                  and discard through the spout. If you skip this 
                                  step, the water temperature will drop on contact 
                                  with the cold pot, and the tea will not brew 
                                  properly. 
                                  Add 1 teaspoon of loose tea per cup or 1 teabag 
                                  for every 2 cups of tea. Add one extra if you 
                                  like it strong. 
                                  Pour on water as it boils. Water that is over-boiled 
                                  or not hot enough will result in flat-tasting 
                                  tea. Place the lid on the pot and cover with 
                                  a tea cozy or pot holder in order to retain 
                                  heat. 
                                  Brew for 3-5 minutes. 
                                  Remove the leaves/bags to prevent further steeping. 
                                  Stir and serve immediately. Cover any remaining 
                                  tea to keep it hot.  
                                Catherine Owsianiecki is a feature 
                                  writer and editor based in Bel Air, Maryland. 
                                  To contact her, telephone 410-879-2709 or e-mail 
                                  catherineo@erols.com 
                               
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